I honestly have no clue how it happened, but my co-workers and I ended up on the topic of virginity. One of the girls asked me how old I was. I told her I was 32.
She was all like, "And you've never had sex?" Since it's never been a secret that I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, it's pretty much a given that I'm saving myself for marriage.
My reply (no shame or regret), "That's right."
Her reply (with scornful laughter), "You don't know what you're missing."
This is why I don't get along with some of the people on my shift. I try to be nice to them and talk with them. I give an inch and they take a mile. Tonight was evidence of that, with this co-worker deciding that my being a virgin made me uncool.
Personally, I prefer to save myself for my eternal companion (if my Heavenly Father decides to bless me with one of course), knowing that I'm coming into the marriage completely and totally morally clean. I understand that I'm working with some people who don't share this belief. It just makes me sad that people make light of moral issues and treat intimacy lightly. It is a God given gift for two people to join together in such a way that they are completely one; heart, body, and soul. And that kind of unity is only right and proper in a marriage relationship.
I am content in waiting until I'm married to completely give myself to my eternal companion. The waiting will be so worth it.
Slan go foill...
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